Many of Thai girls you have meet in the bars/discos/nightclubs want to be your paid holiday girlfriend.
Others only want to keep you company for a few hours or for the night and hopefully she say goodbye to you in the morning with a kiss on your cheek. If the girl don’t want to leave you in the morning she probably thinks of herself as your new holiday girlfriend.
Finding girl company for the night/week/month/year is extremely easy in Thailand. Too easy will some say. One never go home alone after a night out. Even if you want to sleep alone you will “always” wake up next morning with a girl sharing your bed. This is after all Thailand. A paradise for men, both young and old!
Thai girls will all be more than happy to chat and play bar games with you while you order more and more drinks. You are happy. The bar owner are happy and the girls are happy knowing that the bar has earned money this night too.
If you meet a girl, you would like to get to now better in one of the bars and she agree to go with you and the bar has not yet closed for the night then a bar fine have to be paid. Her leaving the bar where she work means less income to the bar and that has to be compensated.
If you don’t meet a girl before the bars close then don’t worry. Many of the bar girls that has not been bar fined earlier that night will go to a nearby disco or nightclub to have fun. There you will see them again and have a second chance without the need to pay a bar fine. Discos and nightclubs are also where freelancers like to hang out while looking for a ‘handsome man’ to go home with.
Next morning you should wake up with a girl sharing your bed. If not, you must had a blackout and forgot which hotel you stayed at.
There is a good chance the girl you met last night want to stay with you more than one day. But don’t say yes if you want to meet other girls. Instead send her home. Don’t forget you are here on vacation to have fun in paradise before going back home to the real world where no girls will shout ‘handsome man’ to you in the street.
But read this first so you know the game:
Some girls have boyfriends all over the world sending them thousands of baht every month. Of course their boyfriends think they are the only man for her. While at the same time they work in one of the many bars in Thailand hoping to meet a handsome foreigner with an even thicker wallet.
I don’t say you can’t meet girls and have fun, but don’t give them too much money. If they love you they don’t care so much about money anyway.
She will keep in touch with you, but the emails you will receive are not always written by her. Lots of girls get help from the shop, friends or foreigners to write back, so expect your email to be read by many people. Don’t write anything you don’t want others to read. Sooner or later you may receive e-mail telling her mother’s buffalo is sick or her sister is in hospital, asking for you to help her out with some money. She will send it to all her foreigner boyfriends hoping some of them will send money.